Well, I don’t usually write in such things but Facebook is looking for beta testers for a new feature they will add soon, their application was you write three questions and answer them in a nice way. I think they will add a blogging feature in Facebook, anyways my third question was What is the main problem in relationships? and my answer was as follows:
It can be simply discribed as, girls don’t know what they want and guys want the shortcut to that!! This leads us to nothing and of course nothing leads to problems since each is trying to understand why the opposite sex doesn’t understand how stupid my sex is (this is not making any sense ? Perfect, that’s kind of the point).
Clearly men are the lazy part of the relationship. Men hate fights and problems. They love it when women are in a good mood and men are good in keeping them in (not for long though). But once The woman is out of that good mood, men tend to leave the house on fire and just go to the nearest cafe/bar. Men are simple to get and to be understood, but for a woman’s brain simplicity is not defined. That’s why men just talk and laugh in a bar while no one knows the other, it’s easy to understand each other as none of them cares how much the other weights or what type of shoes they wear.
On the other hand(s), women are the Fire+match+Oxygen with “self destructive in less than 5 seconds” buttons all over her brain. The Woman’s brain (for a man) is simply a minefield. You take one step wrong, then Bang you lose a foot. What’s worse than losing a foot, is that you have to crawl out of that minefield, so the probability of stepping on another mine is quiet high. Eventually the man will end up blowing himself up, or if he is smart enough, he will end up defusing all the mines with the soft talk that men are usually good at (for over 1000 years) and women still can’t tell the difference between soft and sweet talk.
Eventually men want to be left alone watching the world cup match, yet the woman would really like to visit her friend (the one she hates and never been to her house) or ever worse have a shopping-attack. Or the woman will cook a very delicious meal but the man comes home while he already had lunch in a fast food because he doesn’t want his lady to get tired. Who’s fault is that ? (NO ONES FAULT) however the fights starts and the battle begins.
I personally think both sex should be more clear about their prospective and share more often. That will help each of them characterize the other and I believe that would cause less problems with time.